A Father’s wedding Day Advice
Hello, my name is Rodger Ricketts, I’m Steph’s dad and she asked that I make a few remarks as an elder about marriage.
I begin with the magical word love. We are all here on this happy occasion because of love; these two love each other and our love for them.
Marriage is a living experience that needs to be constantly sustained and nurtured, otherwise, it can falter and vanish. Just like tending to a treasured garden, a happy marriage requires certain regular conscious actions to keep it beautiful and healthy.
Let me make a few points
Love, care and compassion create happiness. This union/ relationship is founded on love, concern, and kindness and these divine emotions are a basis for all positive actions. With each other, express your love directly through not only gentle words but also actions. Always be supportive, not aggressive.
Patience and respect for each other helps find the correct balance between achieving your wants as well as the other’s. Listen carefully to understand each other.
Marriage requires sometimes sacrifice, not out of resignation or duty, but love.
Finally, as a union together, you are stronger and wiser. As you support each other, always look for a win-win solution to problems and concerns. Laugh/cry together in your life and share happiness through and to each other.
Live and love your life, this mysterious thing called life, together.
May you and all here be happy, well and safe in your life.
We love you both.
Kisses and hugs.
We are all Interconnected even with the Universe 