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Anatta: Nothing lives on its own, all are interdependent.

2 Nov



Anatta: Nothing lives on its own, all are interdependent. We are alive not only due to our parents, air, food, water, but the entire ecosystem we live in. Dependent Origination recognizes that everything, including the psychophysical compound that we call individual, exists only in relation to other beings and things and undergoes constant changes responding and reacting to them. There is a plural causality of all things whereby each thing arises in relation to all others, and can therefore be said to be conditioned by all others. There are vast numbers of influences that affect us constantly- some help us thrive, others not. We cannot remain the same for two moments. We are like a flame. Whatever is subject to origination is also subject to cessation. Every form has the cycle of existence- to begin, age, to become disordered, and eventually cease to exist. That which carries on after death is our life elements and trends. There is nothing that can be called a permanent “I”. The identities of ‘I’, “me” and “mine” are illusions that we construct with our minds


Rodger R Ricketts,2022. All rights reserved

God is No-thing: The Apophatic Assertion- Revised.Chapter 9 Apophatic and Cataphatic Meditations

31 Oct

Copyright is claimed by Rodger R Ricketts, Psy.D. All rights reserved, Fair use is granted, 2022 by Amazon KDP.

In this chapter, we reviewed several Apophatic methods to access the Oneness or No-Thing. They all begin with the incorporation of virtue, compassion/kindness and wisdom to oneself and others into everyday life. By giving up the cravings and obsession with sense gratifications, anger/resentments and egotistic selfishness based on a dualistic worldview, one’s life is unfolded by a degree of true peace of mind created by a virtuous mind and action: at this point, one is ready to move to the higher levels through meditation/prayer.

The Buddha’s pure experience unveiled for him the delusion of the cognitively based complementary relationship of the dualistic subjective/objective world. The supreme non- dualistic apprehension of existence is accomplished by consistently bending one’s awareness to the natural and higher, purer states of mind. Release from the lower to higher states is accomplished by silencing the separation created by dualism and the subject/other split. Therefore, the prescription is to do nothing, relax, be alert and allegorically let the mind, be like ‘the lotus flower blossom’, rise above the ‘muddy paddy field’ of worldly obsessions. The final stage of meditation is reached by becoming aware of and letting go of everything that alienates us away from being present in the All. When that happens, we understand and empathically feel that everything is inter-being, interconnected and all living Beings are Family of the Universe or Divine. The realm of pure experience is not an ontological category, but the ordinary world of phenomena experienced directly, with no intervening conceptualization.

Finally, as philosopher, educator and writer, Martin Buber wrote in ‘I and Thou’,

“Now from my own unforgettable experience I know well that there is a state in which the bonds of the personal nature of life seem to have fallen away from us and we experience an undivided unity…. I can elicit from those experiences only that in them I reached a non-differentiable unity of myself without form or content. I may call this an original pre-biographical unity and suppose that it is hidden unchanged beneath all biographical change, all development and complication of the soul.”

What is Non-Duality? Experiences That Shatter the Illusion of Separation

31 Oct

Ever feel like you’re separate from the world, like a lone wolf? What if that feeling was just a trick of the mind? Non-duality suggests everything is connected, all part of one big, amazing reality. This article will dive into experiences that show you this truth.

The Core Understanding of Non-Duality

Non-duality means “not two.” It’s a concept that flies in the face of how we normally think. Usually, we see things as “this” or “that,” “me” or “you.” This is dualistic thinking. Non-duality, on the other hand, says all these separate things are actually one. It has roots in many spiritual paths, each with its own way of expressing this deep unity.

Beyond the Illusion of Separateness

Our minds are amazing, but they can also trick us. They create stories, build beliefs, and condition us to see the world in a certain way. This can lead to the illusion of separation. We start believing we’re isolated individuals, cut off from everything else. This belief causes suffering. It limits what we think is possible.

Think of the ocean. Waves look like separate things. But they’re all made of the same water. They rise and fall. Yet, they always come back to the ocean. We are all like waves, unique expressions of one ocean.

The Oneness of All Things

If non-duality is true, then everything is connected. This changes how we see everything. Our relationships become deeper. Our actions have more meaning. The world feels different. It feels alive and interconnected.

Try this: Pay attention to your breath. Notice how it connects you to the air around you. That air came from somewhere. Maybe a tree. Maybe an ocean. You are connected to all of that.

Common Experiences That Hint at Non-Duality

Certain experiences give us glimpses of non-duality. They aren’t the goal, but they point to a deeper truth. Keep an open mind.

Peak Experiences and Flow States

Have you ever felt pure joy? Or been so focused on something that time disappeared? These are peak experiences and flow states. In these moments, the sense of self fades. You become one with the experience.

Profound Connection and Empathy

Ever felt deeply connected to someone? Maybe you felt their pain as if it was your own? That’s empathy. It reveals the unity of consciousness. We are all connected on a deeper level.

Try loving-kindness meditation. Send feelings of compassion and kindness to yourself, then to others. Even those you dislike. See your heart start to open.

Practices That Facilitate the Realization of Non-Duality

Certain practices help us quiet the mind. They dissolve the ego. They show us the non-dual nature of reality.

Meditation and Mindfulness

Meditation helps quiet the mind. Mindfulness helps us pay attention. Both help us experience the present. We can see things without judgment or interpretation.

Sit comfortably. Focus on your breath. When thoughts arise, just notice them. Let them go. Keep bringing your attention back to your breath.

Self-Inquiry

Self-inquiry is about asking, “Who am I?” Keep asking this question. Don’t try to answer with your mind. Let the question sink in. See what happens. It might dissolve the sense of a separate self.

Contemplation on Nature

Spend time in nature. Look at the trees, the sky, the water. Notice how everything is connected. Everything relies on everything else. This can reveal the unity of life.

Overcoming Challenges on the Path to Non-Duality

The path to non-duality isn’t always easy. Doubts and fears come up. Resistance arises.

The Role of the Ego

The ego wants to be in control. It wants to protect itself. Non-duality threatens the ego. The ego will resist.

Learn to recognize your ego’s patterns. Understand what motivates it. Don’t fight it. Just observe it.

Accepting the Unknown

You must surrender to the unknown. You have to accept that you don’t know everything. Clinging to beliefs will hold you back.

Living a Non-Dual Life: Implications and Applications

Realizing non-duality changes how we live. It affects everything.

Compassion and Ethical Action

When you see your connection to others, compassion arises. Ethical action becomes natural. You want to help everyone, because helping them, you are helping yourself.

Letting Go of Attachment

Non-duality helps us let go of attachment. We see that everything is impermanent. Nothing lasts forever. This frees us from suffering.

Conclusion

Non-duality is a transformative experience. It shows us that everything is connected. It’s not a belief, but a direct experience of reality. Keep exploring this path. You may find that the separation you felt was never real.

l Giardino del Silenzio (The Garden of Silence)

17 Oct

High in the quiet hills, far away from noisy towns, lived a spiritual master named Kaelen. He did not speak with big, booming words. Instead, he sat under an old olive tree every morning as the sun painted the sky in soft shades of gold and rose.

People walked for miles just to sit near him. They brought heavy hearts, tired minds, and endless worries about yesterday and tomorrow.

One crisp morning, a woman named Mara stepped forward holding an empty clay pot.

“Master,” she asked, her voice trembling, “my mind is always full of noise. How can I find peace when life demands so much from me?”

Kaelen smiled gently. He did not give her a long lecture. Instead, he took her empty pot, walked over to a clear stream, and filled it with sparkling water until it was completely full to the brim.

“Look closely,” Kaelen said.

Mara looked into the water. She could see her own face, clear and calm like a mirror.

Then, Kaelen picked up a single, smooth pebble from the ground and dropped it into the water. Circles of ripples spread outward, and her reflection wobbled and broke into pieces.

“When life drops pebbles of trouble into your day,” Kaelen whispered, “the water gets disturbed. If you try to grab the water with your hands to fix it, you only make more waves. What must you do?”

Mara watched as the ripples slowly faded away, one by one. The water grew still again, and her reflection returned, calm and clear.

“I… I wait,” Mara said. “I let the water settle on its own.”

“Yes,” the master nodded. “Your mind is like this water. When thoughts and worries stir it up, do not fight the waves. Sit in the quiet. Let the mud sink to the bottom. Peace is not something you have to chase or build; it is what remains when you stop shaking the pot.”

A soft murmur of understanding drifted through the crowd. Faces that had arrived tight with stress began to loosen. People looked at one another—some with gentle smiles, others with quiet tears of relief. The heavy weight in their shoulders melted away like morning mist under the warm sun.

They did not leave with a list of rules. They left with lighter steps, quiet smiles, and hearts overflowing with a deep, quiet joy.

I am Saddened…

15 Oct

God’ is a pure No-thing…

12 Oct

Angelus Silesius wrote, ‘God’ is a pure No-thing; concealed in now and here; the less you reach for ‘Him’, the more ‘He’ will appear.’ The All is the divine immanence that embraces all.

The Important Updated Perspective on the All Body Interconnecting Fascia…Watch Now…

9 Oct

“In nature nothing exists alone.” Rachel Carson, Silent Spring

5 Oct

We Are the Treasure of Alchemy

31 Aug

Rodger R Ricketts, Psy.D.

08/11/2026

We Are the Treasure of Alchemy
Rodger Ricketts, Psy.D.
08/11/2026

Each of us acts as an alchemist—someone who improves life—within the complex network of life’s connections and interactions. Unlike the ancient alchemists, we don’t need secret recipes or to stand by old furnaces trying to turn lead into gold. Instead, every day, through our intentions and relationships, we engage in something remarkable: the true catalysts of change and transformation.

We convert ideas into actions, experiences into wisdom, challenges into strength, and possibilities into realities. We evolve, and through our choices, we influence the world around us. In this way, alchemy serves as a powerful metaphor not only for understanding the universe but also for personal growth and psychological freedom.

To transmute means to alter something’s form, appearance, nature, or condition—to turn it into something different. This process surrounds us; nothing in the universe remains completely still or unchanged. Stars are born and die. Water turns into vapor, clouds become rain, seeds grow into plants, bodies age, civilizations rise and fall, and humans continuously change through experience.

Change is not a disruption of life.
Change is life.

One of our greatest opportunities as humans is realizing that we don’t have to be passive observers of transformation; instead, we can consciously participate in it.

A Universe in Transformation

The universe itself tells a story of transformation. Stars act as vast cosmic furnaces where elements are created that eventually become parts of planets, oceans, mountains, plants, animals, and humans. When massive stars reach the end of their lives, they scatter these elements across space, providing the building blocks for new celestial bodies.

Our planet tells a similar story. Early Earth looked very different from the world we know today. Over vast periods, geological, chemical, and biological processes reshaped its surface and atmosphere. Eventually, conditions arose that allowed increasingly complex life forms to develop.

Transformation, then, is not occasional but constant. It is woven into existence. Life is energy. Energy cannot be created or destroyed; it only changes form.

Water is a simple example. It can exist as liquid, ice, vapor, clouds, rain, or snow. Its state changes dramatically, yet something remains constant throughout these changes. What we see is not disappearance but transformation.

We see similar cycles everywhere: growth and decay, creation and destruction, birth and death, beginnings and endings.

Writer and speaker Alan Watts noted that without birth, death, and the ongoing transformation of life’s forms, the world would become static and lose its rhythm. This insight encourages us to view change differently. Instead of seeing change only as loss or disruption, we can recognize it as an essential part of the dynamic flow that sustains life.

The Ancient Alchemy

For centuries, alchemy reflected humanity’s fascination with transformation. Different cultures developed their own traditions around what Western history later called alchemy. Beneath the experiments, symbols, and mysteries lay a lasting question:

Can one thing become something else?

Ancient alchemists sought ways to transform matter, famously trying to turn base metals into gold.

Yet the lasting power of alchemy lies in another interpretation.

What if the most important thing we can transform is ourselves?

The Alchemy Within Us

Beyond the fact that the human body is always changing—millions of cells die and new ones form every second, replacing old tissues, healing wounds, and remodeling bones—our lives are full of endless opportunities offered by life’s transformations.

Painful experiences can foster compassion.
Failure can lead to knowledge.
Fear can inspire courage.
Confusion can bring understanding.
Anger can turn into determination.
Grief can deepen our appreciation for life.
An idea can become an invention, a business, a work of art, a relationship, or a campaign.

None of these changes happen automatically. Pain doesn’t always lead to compassion, nor does difficulty inherently create strength. The true alchemy of inner transformation lies in how we respond to what happens to us.

As Marcus Aurelius wrote in Meditations: “The universe is transformation; our life is what our thoughts make it.”

This distinction matters.

We can’t control every circumstance that comes our way, but we can choose our thoughts and actions, and thus how those circumstances affect us.

The journey of self-awareness, self-discovery, and self-development is a profound form of personal transformation. Each time we learn something that changes our understanding; question a belief that no longer serves us; develop a new skill; forgive or love someone; make a different choice; or see ourselves from a broader perspective, we actively shape our own transformation toward a life of purpose and fulfillment.

We are constantly reshaping our identity and worldview.

The person reading this is not exactly the same as the one from ten years ago—or even one year ago. Experiences have been absorbed, relationships have influenced us, reflections have formed opinions, decisions have led to consequences, and knowledge has changed our perception.

Life has been continuously shaping us. Yet, when we begin to consciously work on our development, that is when we become alchemists.

What if the most important thing we can transform is ourselves?

In that case, the base elements include our fear, resentment, ignorance, limitations, pain, or unconscious patterns.

The catalyst is experience.

And the “gold” is wisdom.

Seen this way, alchemy is not just ancient metallurgy; it becomes a metaphor for the conscious human journey.

We enter experiences as one person and emerge changed.

At some point, new possibilities arise.

Where Attention Goes

As the Buddha said, “Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.”

There is a common saying: “Energy flows where attention goes.”

Whether understood spiritually or simply as a principle of focus and behavior, this message is valuable. What we consistently focus on shapes what we notice, what we reinforce, how we interpret events, and ultimately how we respond to life.

If our attention stays fixed on resentment, fear, conflict, and what might go wrong, these experiences will dominate our inner world.

But attention can be redirected.

We can mindfully observe a thought without becoming that thought.

We can feel anger without letting it control our next actions.

We can experience fear and still move forward with reason.

We can face disappointment and ask what it wants to teach us.

This is not about denying painful emotions. True transformation is not denial. The alchemist does not pretend that lead is already gold.

The material must first be accepted as it is before it can be transformed.

Our sadness, fear, disappointment, anger, and uncertainty are essential parts of being human. The goal is not always to eliminate these feelings but to ask:

What could this become?

That question alone can transform our relationships.

The Forge of Transformation

Transformation often feels uncomfortable.

Grapes are crushed before becoming wine. Olives are pressed to release their oil. Seeds begin growth beneath the dark soil. Diamonds symbolize beauty born from immense pressure.

These images endure because they reflect something we recognize within ourselves.

There are times when life feels overwhelming.

There can be dark seasons.

Moments when what once seemed stable collapses, and we cannot yet see what will replace it.

The temptation during these times is to believe life has gone terribly wrong.

But darkness doesn’t always mean nothing is happening.

Disruption marks the start of the possibility for positive change.

“Even in the darkness, something new is preparing to rise.” — Joseph Long

This doesn’t mean suffering should be romanticized or that every painful experience is necessary. Instead, it means that when hardship occurs, we still have the power to choose what we carry forward.

We can decide whether the experience makes us rigid or deepens our understanding and flexibility.

Whether disappointment leads to bitterness or insight.

Whether failure ends a journey or sparks new understanding.

Whether fear becomes a prison or an invitation to courage depends on how we respond.

This is the human alchemy laboratory.

Changing Our Inner and Outer Worlds

Personal transformation can’t happen only in the mind; it requires experience.

Our inner and outer worlds constantly influence each other.

The people around us, conversations we have, books we read, media we consume, workplaces, relationships, homes, habits, and daily environments all shape the conditions in which we think and act.

If we want to transform ourselves, we need to become more aware of what we consistently allow into our lives.

What makes us stronger?

What weakens us?

What encourages growth?

What pulls us back to earlier, less favorable versions of ourselves?

What habits bring peace, clarity, and purpose?

Which ones create chaos?

Alchemy requires intention.

Through thoughtful reflection, attention, learning, and—most importantly—action, we can begin to create conditions that support the person we want to become.

We may not instantly turn every sadness into happiness or every conflict into harmony, as human transformation is more complex.

But we can introduce something new into existing patterns.

Patience can play a role in an argument.

Understanding can sometimes lead to disagreement.

Compassion can influence judgment.

Curiosity can turn into fear.

One changed response can alter an interaction.

Repeated changes can affect a relationship.

Changed relationships can transform families, workplaces, and communities.

Transformation that begins within us rarely ends there.

We Are Conductors of Change

Humans have an extraordinary ability not only to adapt but also to intentionally transform the world.

We turn imagination into reality.

An observation leads to a hypothesis, which can lead to discovery.

A thought becomes a blueprint, and a blueprint becomes a building.

An emotion becomes a song.

An experience becomes a story.

A problem becomes an invention when it inspires a solution.

An injustice sparks a movement.

Human innovation is a modern form of transformation.

But this ability raises an important question:

What are we transforming the world into?

Power without wisdom is not the highest form of alchemy.

Our technological abilities now allow us to change landscapes, ecosystems, communication, medicine, industry, and even fundamental aspects of life on a scale unimaginable to previous generations. With this power comes great responsibility.

As guardians of the planet and architects of the future, we must make choices that are increasingly conscious, ethical, and informed.

Transformation itself is neutral.

What matters are the choices and directions we take.

The same creativity that solves problems can create new ones.

The same technology that connects people can also divide them.

The same ambition that drives achievements can consume everything in its path.

Therefore, the highest form of human alchemy requires more than the ability to transform objects.

It requires wisdom to decide what should change, what should be preserved, and what kind of future our transformations will create.

The Treasure

This brings us to alchemy’s true gold.

Perhaps gold was never meant to represent wealth alone.

Perhaps gold also symbolizes a state of being.

The original dream of turning something ordinary into something precious gains deeper meaning when applied to consciousness.

Our true treasure includes the calm that arises when we learn not to react hastily to every disturbance.

It may be the inner security that comes from understanding life as it is.

It may be the wisdom gained from mistakes we once wished to erase.

It may be compassion born from awareness of suffering.

It may be courage born from fear.

It may be the quiet strength that comes from knowing circumstances can change without destroying who we are.

Gold is transformation carried out with awareness.

We spend much of our lives searching outside ourselves for something to make us ‘complete’: success, recognition, possessions, relationships, achievements, or certainty.

Yet the ancient image of the alchemist suggests another possibility.

The treasure, or true wholeness, emerges from the inner process itself.

Every experience becomes valuable material.

Every challenge enters the forge.

Every realization refines us.

Every conscious choice shapes our transformations.

We Are the Alchemists

Transformation happens on all levels—from matter changing, to stars being born and dying, to Earth evolving, to the human body and mind growing.

We are products of a vast history of transformation.

But we are more than that.

We are not just the results of change; we are also its agents.

We have creativity, foresight, consciousness, and the ability to choose.

We can observe ourselves changing and actively shape the direction of that change.

This is one of our greatest powers: to find joy in creative living.

We cannot stop the universe from changing.

We cannot keep people, circumstances, bodies, relationships, cultures, or even ourselves fixed in their current states.

The question is not whether transformation will happen—it will.

The question is whether we will participate consciously.

Will we let calm awareness turn worry into clear, wise action?

Will we let hardship become strength?

Will we let knowledge become understanding?

Will we let creativity lead to meaningful contribution?

Will our personal transformations improve our lives and those of others?

Will humanity use its extraordinary power to transform the planet in ways that allow future generations to thrive?

Alchemy reminds us that transformation is both a choice and a responsibility.

We are the elements.

We are the forge.

We are the alchemists.

When we approach change with clear awareness, courage, kindness toward ourselves and others, and intention, the results will be more valuable than anything ancient alchemists ever imagined.

We are the treasure.

Presentation: The Buddha for You and Me…

25 Jul

A presentation I presented a few years ago.